Why Hire a Divorce Coach?
You may not be sure what divorce coaching is or if it’s right for you.
In this blog I’ll explain some of the benefits of having a divorce coach and also how my coaching calls are structured.
You probably have an attorney for the legal side of your divorce, but attorneys don’t help at all with the emotional side. Once your divorce is complete, they’re typically done. You’re on your own to figure out what to do next with your life. There’s great focus on ending your marriage but your left to figure out the rest.
Having a life coach specializing in divorce gives you someone experienced with the process. Someone trained in helping you figure out what’s best for you moving forward. A coach that’s dedicated to your personal situation. That can ask the right questions and give you the personal attention to help you move forward with clarity.
If you’re doing it alone you may be relying on friends and family to help you.
But they may not know how to help. If they’ve never been through a divorce- even though they want to help, they don’t understand what you’re going through. Or they may be too close to your situation that they give you biased advice based on what’s in their best interest.
Worst case- they can give really bad advise that makes you feel worse.
I had neighbor that told me that her friend had decided to stay with her cheating husband because ‘all the good ones were taken.’ Uh… no thanks.
Relying on friends and family can leave you more confused because of all the conflicting view points and biased opinions.
A divorce coach is trained to help you figure out and clarify what’s best for you. You get an unbiased person outside of your situation that can help you see the big picture. You get help and understanding based on your unique situation and needs. What’s right for one person can be completely wrong for the next. A coach works for your best interests.
This is a bit of a cheesy analogy- but hiring a divorce coach is like hiring a personal trainer at the gym to get results quicker. You’re not stumbling around trying to figure out what do.
With a coach, you can immediately start working on the issues that are most important to you. Your able to move through issues faster than trying to figure it all out on your own.
My coaching is specific to your personal situation and different for each client.
Whatever you want to focus on- I’ll design your coaching around that. Coaching can be for something specific like how to start dating again or more general- just wanting to feel better. You may just need a one time coaching call to get clarity on an issue or you may want more weekly coaching calls to help you through a tough situation.
You decide what’s right for you.
If there is something specific that’s come up that you need help with you can go to my calendar and schedule a 50 minute coaching call.
If you want weekly support, I have several options for longer term coaching available as well.
If you’re ready to move on with your life but feel stuck, not sure what to do or where to start. My coaching is that missing tool.
Hiring a divorce coach gives you someone to talk to, that’s on your side.
There’s no judgement.
Someone who’s been through the divorce process, is happily on the other side and has a system to help you do the same.
I’ll help you figure out what you want for your future and then show you how to manifest it.
